Healed?
Doing the work (thanks to you!), on a journey of self awareness and self reflection. Trying to heal my anxious attachment wounds and abandonment issues. My question is - how will I know when I’m “healed”?? Hear about healing a lot and doing the work, but what does it really mean to be healed? Thanks in advance for your insight 🤗
Red flags
I recently ended things with a man that everyone was telling me i should have ran a mile from. Why do I keep doubting myself and thinking did I jump the gun when he ended things with me 2 weeks previous telling me he didnt want a relationship then telling me he did. I know this wasnt right but why cant I stop thinking about him and want to go back ther?
When to stop dating?
When newly dating someone, at what point do you stop seeing/being open to seeing other people? And do you tell the other person? I'm 4 weeks in with a guy who I think is great, but I feel like I'm not supposed to stop being open to others until there's some kind of understanding between us?!
Heart on my sleeve
I've always been the girl who wears her heart on her sleeve and jumps into a relationship, giving everyone a chance and not letting bad experiences affect future relationships. Until now. A short (1.5year) relationship ended in February. I thought they were my forever person, but they had sever commitment issues since they won't over their ex from 3years prior. Since him, I feel emotionally inept. I want to date and catch feels and have a relationship, but I physically cannot. Everything gives me "the ick" for loss of a better phrase and I don't think I do want a relationship. Although I'm currently semi happy with being single for a while, I'm genuinely scared I won't ever want a relationship and will be alone forever. Help!